Mails that contain these words will get practically no replies proving that intelligence or maybe just good grammar is an attractive trait in both sexes. Certain words are attention grabbing because they sound delicious. She splits her time between writing for The Date Mix and working on the Zoosk product, which gives her behind-the-scenes knowledge about the world of online dating. She is almost guaranteed to at least read your message if only to find out if she actually knows you. Most people would rather receive a compliment about something they wrote in their profile. Even better if this can also relate to something they wrote in their profile.
This is where you want to continue connecting with her as well as telling her why you are messaging her.
How to Write Your First Online Dating Message
Elizabeth is a freelance writer, editor, and advertising copywriter in Brooklyn. My favorite line was:. You filled out your online dating profile. Better to focus on interests, or even better, common interests. Atheist actually showed up surprisingly often times per 10, messages, second only to mentions of christian and ahead of for jewish and for muslim.